Are they draining or uplifting you?

Have you ever felt you were sensitive to other people’s theories? We are all sensitive, deep down, and, whether you are aware of it completely, sensitive to others. Let’s explore this together!

As a psychic, I feel that opposites do not always attract; in fact, I think that more often than not, like attracts like and that we resonate with those on a similar vibration to ourselves, one that could be either positive or negative.

What’s your vibration? Is it a positive one? Take a few moments to reflect on your life. Who is the most important to you right now? Are they positive, uplifting, supportive souls, or are they negative, draining and weigh you down?

How do you know whether or not someone close to you is positive or negative? Have you ever experienced yourself stepping back from friendship or even a loved one? Have you felt repelled even? Perhaps you were drained or tired and didn’t quite understand why? Your own feelings are a good way of gauging whether or not someone is a negative or positive influence on your vibration. Because deep down you care about others, it is easy to become over-consumed by a relative’s or friend’s emotions. Their drama isn’t yours, but it can still affect your vibrations negatively!

You may even feel that you just can’t deal with much more of their company, their contact, often without knowing why you may be dreading their phone call or text. It’s because it might be more stress and involvement than you want. Always trust this sense of intuitive protection; it’s okay to care about others, but not at the expense of caring for yourself. We don’t mean to delete close friends and family from our lives, but we can learn to step back and create healthy boundaries in any stressful situations. Learn your own energy and boundary to recognise what is your own drama and what is others.

Then step forward. Enjoy those that support you. Recharge your energy and of course value and appreciate relationships where there is “give and take”. 50/50 is very important. We can all get hooked and easily involved with a connection but it’s important to notice who gives and who simply takes your energy without giving any in return.

Spring is the perfect time for an internal as well as external spring clean; don’t miss this opportunity to raise and uplift your energy. Call me today and using my insight, let me help you understand more.

Love & Light,

Carolyn