AFFAIRS
There
tend to be Gender Difference on why people have affairs.
Although
they are not exact, they do add another layer in understanding the behaviour of
your partner.
Difference #1 – Women tend to seek Soul
Mates – Men seek Playmates.
The result of this a man does not have
to be unhappy within a marriage to have what he considered a fling. The women in the picture are likely to feel
it is for love.
Difference #2 – Women believe that their
affair is justified when it’s for love – Men – when it is not for love.
Women tend to attach themselves more
deeply to their lovers, both emotionally and sexually, which is one reason why
their affairs if the woman is married often leads to divorced.
Women tend to have a problem with seeing
a relationship just for sex and as a result tend to confuse the two “L”
words. LOVE & LUST. The reason for this is upbringing. Most women are brought up with the
traditional feminine virtues are “self-denial, self-sacrifice, self-effacement
and most import self-restraint. That is
why it is often the woman he gets the blame for the affair rather than the man.
In general, men believe that
extramarital sex is acceptable and even condoned by society as long as it’s
only a fling and no one gets hurts – particularly his wife. It is rare that a man having a fling is
actually wishing a divorce – it is far too costly for him in financial
terms. Men tend to minimize the
significance of a sexual encounter, seeing it as an inconsequential event, an
accident, a momentary release.
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