Looking and feeling good, for yourself or for others?

I feel we all live in a very demanding time, which I feel affects all ages, especially in this current climate where saving and keeping our money is priority to over spending, But we all love and need retail therapy buying ourselves or a loved one that little treat, and we get such a buzz when we buy something new makes us feel good, alive, in a way a little tonic if going through a difficult time.

When we do buy especially fashion, and focus on our appearance we can all too easily loose ourselves get carried away even, is for our benefit, or what we think others think, adding to the financial strain? This is a big topic to discuss as it uproots many emotions and feelings but once we detach a little and clear our boundary and think and feel in our own space , you can focus on what you would like and allow to be yourself with out the added pressure from others .

It also pulls our energy in when we start to prioritise ourselves and not worry what others think, and to display your personality, your individuality, and be proud to be the wonderful you! Now this doesn't just relate to cloths and new outfits, but anything for you, even home and garden treating yourself to that little treat which makes you feel good in your environment, without the guilt!

Another emotion dropping into the hat, perhaps you have energy's around you that makes you feel guilty? When out and about shopping, perhaps you’re a parent and instantly feel the family comes first, which yes, is naturally how things are, but so is your happiness and all can benefit.
This similar topic has been discussed on the show where looking good and feeling good is fantastic if it is for you, rather than pleasing others and not being happy, if your actions and choices are dictated by those around you, then we loose ourselves and not feel in control and enjoying your life.

So, stop and think for awhile, what have you done for yourself lately? Are you being allowed to get that new outfit you had your eye on or that fabulous new handbag? Or for the gents, enjoying their past times? Is how you look the way you would like to look? Or is someone moulding you to how they see is best? That's just when we need a little space, clear boundaries, and to feel confident in your own energy and do what you feel is for the best. Pleasing you, rather than pleasing others and keeping others happy, keep your identity. To then feel uplifted, happy and centered, ready for what your day brings.

Love & Light.

Carolyn